{"id":12755,"date":"2013-08-14T05:56:05","date_gmt":"2013-08-14T10:56:05","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/lisadelay.com\/blog\/?p=12755"},"modified":"2014-01-15T21:46:43","modified_gmt":"2014-01-16T02:46:43","slug":"a-recipe-for-dogged-tenacity","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/lisadelay.com\/blog\/a-recipe-for-dogged-tenacity\/","title":{"rendered":"A Recipe for &#8220;Dogged Tenacity&#8221;"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>I&#8217;m concerned that my daughter won&#8217;t do well in life. Why? <strong>Tenacity<\/strong>.<\/p>\n<h4><strong>Tenacity is what separates the successful from the naturally gifted.<\/strong><\/h4>\n<p>Having a high IQ should be a good thing. It can be, but it can make a person (potentially) very lazy. For instance, it can make you try less. So, why work hard at school (to learn new things), if the grade come easy?<\/p>\n<p>A lack of struggle will hold actually us back from achieving success in the future.<\/p>\n<p>Smarts can mean that when you run into a problem you quits because you hate the feeling of struggling.<\/p>\n<p>The only way to get into a practice of being tenacious is to make sure that some things are fought for.<\/p>\n<p>We will want to take short cuts. We want to skip the work. But, we can&#8217;t.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-medium wp-image-12756\" alt=\"by Seth Casteel (click for source)\" src=\"https:\/\/lisadelay.com\/blog\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/08\/Screen-Shot-2013-08-08-at-5.49.47-PM-300x226.png\" width=\"300\" height=\"226\" srcset=\"https:\/\/lisadelay.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/08\/Screen-Shot-2013-08-08-at-5.49.47-PM-300x226.png 300w, https:\/\/lisadelay.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/08\/Screen-Shot-2013-08-08-at-5.49.47-PM-350x264.png 350w, https:\/\/lisadelay.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/08\/Screen-Shot-2013-08-08-at-5.49.47-PM-150x113.png 150w, https:\/\/lisadelay.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/08\/Screen-Shot-2013-08-08-at-5.49.47-PM.png 534w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 300px) 100vw, 300px\" \/><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><strong>It&#8217;s about dogged tenacity!<\/strong><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-medium wp-image-12757\" alt=\"Screen Shot 2013-08-08 at 6.05.59 PM\" src=\"https:\/\/lisadelay.com\/blog\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/08\/Screen-Shot-2013-08-08-at-6.05.59-PM-300x34.png\" width=\"300\" height=\"34\" srcset=\"https:\/\/lisadelay.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/08\/Screen-Shot-2013-08-08-at-6.05.59-PM-300x34.png 300w, https:\/\/lisadelay.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/08\/Screen-Shot-2013-08-08-at-6.05.59-PM-350x40.png 350w, https:\/\/lisadelay.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/08\/Screen-Shot-2013-08-08-at-6.05.59-PM-150x17.png 150w, https:\/\/lisadelay.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/08\/Screen-Shot-2013-08-08-at-6.05.59-PM.png 579w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 300px) 100vw, 300px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><em>That&#8217;s what I&#8217;ve been striving for with <a href=\"http:\/\/doginthegap.com\">doggedly promoting <strong>my book<\/strong> about dog<\/a>s and how having them makes a big difference in ways I never realized. In the last few weeks it&#8217;s been a lot of work! It&#8217;s hard but the success is worth the pain and toil. The success isn&#8217;t the money\u2013it&#8217;s in the process of the work itself. The joy is in knowing you are doing something you love even though it&#8217;s tough.<\/em><\/p>\n<p><em> I&#8217;m sometimes surprised at how much has been accomplished. The project has gone from zero to hero with hundreds of people excited about the release, on August 19th (2013). It&#8217;s exciting.<\/em><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: 16px;\">So, back to the <strong>recipe<\/strong>:<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: 16px;\"><br \/>\nThe <strong>recipe<\/strong> for tenacity&#8230;for you and me, is to<strong> try things that are too hard for us. Try what is uncomfortable until it doesn&#8217;t bother you any more.<\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n<p><strong>And other things too:<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong>1.<\/strong> Meet fear head-on.<\/p>\n<p><strong>2.<\/strong> Combat, &#8220;I might fail.&#8221; with &#8220;I&#8217;ll learn something no matter what.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p><strong>3.<\/strong> Persist and when you feel like letting up&#8230;rest for just a tiny bit and then persist again.<\/p>\n<p>I&#8217;m inspired by the dogged tenacity of a dog on the fetch. The dog pictures of <strong>Underwater Dogs<\/strong> capture it well.<\/p>\n<p><iframe loading=\"lazy\" style=\"width: 120px; height: 240px;\" src=\"http:\/\/rcm-na.amazon-adsystem.com\/e\/cm?lt1=_blank&amp;bc1=000000&amp;IS2=1&amp;bg1=FFFFFF&amp;fc1=000000&amp;lc1=0000FF&amp;t=thbloflicode-20&amp;o=1&amp;p=8&amp;l=as4&amp;m=amazon&amp;f=ifr&amp;ref=ss_til&amp;asins=0316227706\" height=\"240\" width=\"320\" frameborder=\"0\" marginwidth=\"0\" marginheight=\"0\" scrolling=\"no\"><\/iframe><\/p>\n<h3>So, on that note, please <a href=\"http:\/\/facebook.com\/doginthegapbook\">join a whole pack of us <\/a>as we get ready to doggedly put the puppy into the splashy, so to speak. Let&#8217;s do this!<\/h3>\n<h3><\/h3>\n<h5>Photo is the an incredible artist <a href=\"http:\/\/www.littlefriendsphoto.com\">Seth Casteel<\/a>, photographer of the best-selling and amazing book &#8220;Underwater Dogs&#8221;.<\/h5>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Tenacity is what separates the successful from the naturally gifted.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[5,9],"tags":[190,257,459,913,4377,1011,6290,6294,1015,24,4374,1503,1590,1616,1628,4716,1763,1810,1870,1882,4081,5974,6020,2077,2223,56,2521,2533,2555,4770,2708,2794,2979,6293,6144,3272,3284,6295,3421,3444,3698,3711,89,5465],"class_list":["post-12755","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-authors","category-books","tag-amazing","tag-artist","tag-book","tag-daughter","tag-do","tag-dog","tag-dog-in-the-gap-2","tag-dogged","tag-dogs","tag-fear","tag-feeling","tag-good","tag-hate","tag-help","tag-hero","tag-if","tag-in","tag-iq","tag-join","tag-joy","tag-just","tag-learn","tag-lesson","tag-love","tag-mind","tag-pain","tag-people","tag-persistence","tag-photographer","tag-process","tag-project","tag-recipe","tag-school","tag-seth-casteel","tag-skip","tag-struggle","tag-success","tag-tenacity","tag-things","tag-time","tag-why","tag-will","tag-work","tag-worth"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/lisadelay.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/12755","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/lisadelay.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/lisadelay.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/lisadelay.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/lisadelay.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=12755"}],"version-history":[{"count":11,"href":"https:\/\/lisadelay.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/12755\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":12763,"href":"https:\/\/lisadelay.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/12755\/revisions\/12763"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/lisadelay.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=12755"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/lisadelay.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=12755"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/lisadelay.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=12755"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}