{"id":13700,"date":"2013-12-30T11:21:33","date_gmt":"2013-12-30T16:21:33","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/lisadelay.com\/blog\/?p=13700"},"modified":"2014-01-14T11:42:02","modified_gmt":"2014-01-14T16:42:02","slug":"the-humor-of-self-motivation","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/lisadelay.com\/blog\/the-humor-of-self-motivation\/","title":{"rendered":"The humor of Self-motivation"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><strong>There are all kinds of reasons for doing things.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>In the end, I wonder if it comes down to just two: avoiding fear &amp; pain or making ourselves feel better, which is sort of the same thing.<\/p>\n<h4 style=\"text-align: center;\">I loved this photo (below) for it&#8217;s weirdness.<\/h4>\n<p>What&#8217;s more exciting than running on to the field when a soccer match is in progress? Taking a picture of yourself doing it&#8230;but wait&#8230;<\/p>\n<h3>I wonder&#8230;would this girl have run onto the football pitch in the middle of this match if she had left her mobile phone at <span style=\"text-decoration: underline;\">home<\/span>?<\/h3>\n<p><span style=\"color: #ff0000;\"><strong>Would the notoriety <em>feel<\/em> real if it could not be captured on her camera phone?<\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n<p>Is her fear &#8220;not mattering&#8221;?<br \/>\nOr maybe the motivation was to get some quick attention on Facebook, pure and simple.<\/p>\n<p><em><strong>Perhaps she was self and selfie motivated. Could it be crazy fun, or just crazy?<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-13701\" alt=\"Screen Shot 2013-08-24 at 4.32.23 PM\" src=\"https:\/\/lisadelay.com\/blog\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/12\/Screen-Shot-2013-08-24-at-4.32.23-PM.png\" width=\"320\" height=\"219\" srcset=\"https:\/\/lisadelay.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/12\/Screen-Shot-2013-08-24-at-4.32.23-PM.png 320w, https:\/\/lisadelay.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/12\/Screen-Shot-2013-08-24-at-4.32.23-PM-300x205.png 300w, https:\/\/lisadelay.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/12\/Screen-Shot-2013-08-24-at-4.32.23-PM-150x102.png 150w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 320px) 100vw, 320px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><strong>Of course we can only speculate.<\/strong><br \/>\nIn speculating alone, we will only distract ourselves from <strong><span style=\"text-decoration: underline;\">our<\/span> fears<\/strong>. And those fears are the ones we live with each day. <span style=\"text-decoration: underline;\">They<\/span> are the ones that matter. <em>So let&#8217;s transition&#8230;<\/em><\/p>\n<p><strong>As you prepare yourself for the new year, consider your motivations and your fears.<\/strong>\u00a0What are they? Jot the big ones down. Be brave.<\/p>\n<p>They will last the whole year long, likely, but you can move toward mastering them, yes? That said, you <em>probably<\/em> won&#8217;t be able to if you take a lot of selfies. It seems there&#8217;s something of a dead end in that preoccupation.<\/p>\n<h4 style=\"text-align: center;\">Did this photo make you laugh or cringe?<\/h4>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\">If yes, share to say you care. :)<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><strong>HAPPY 2014!<\/strong><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>There are all kinds of reasons for doing things, but fear is the main one.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[5335,5626],"tags":[4378,546,4665,4697,1122,24,1325,1387,6538,4716,1763,4081,4848,2241,2264,56,2552,2736,2784,5358,6302,5646,5611,3711,3735],"class_list":["post-13700","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-creativity","category-spark-my-muse","tag-be","tag-camera","tag-dead","tag-down","tag-end","tag-fear","tag-football","tag-fun","tag-humor","tag-if","tag-in","tag-just","tag-laugh","tag-mobile-phone","tag-motivation","tag-pain","tag-photo","tag-pure","tag-real","tag-running","tag-selfie","tag-share","tag-taking","tag-will","tag-wonder"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/lisadelay.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/13700","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/lisadelay.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/lisadelay.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/lisadelay.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/lisadelay.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=13700"}],"version-history":[{"count":10,"href":"https:\/\/lisadelay.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/13700\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":13704,"href":"https:\/\/lisadelay.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/13700\/revisions\/13704"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/lisadelay.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=13700"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/lisadelay.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=13700"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/lisadelay.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=13700"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}