{"id":15251,"date":"2014-11-06T10:55:20","date_gmt":"2014-11-06T15:55:20","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/lisadelay.com\/blog\/?p=15251"},"modified":"2014-11-06T17:42:10","modified_gmt":"2014-11-06T22:42:10","slug":"sarcasm-is-useless-yeah-right","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/lisadelay.com\/blog\/sarcasm-is-useless-yeah-right\/","title":{"rendered":"Sarcasm is Useless…yeah, right!"},"content":{"rendered":"

I’m back.<\/em><\/span><\/p>\n

Have you missed me?<\/em><\/span><\/p>\n

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I’m getting to the last half of the humor series I started a few weeks back! (see the bottom of the page for the other entires)!<\/p>\n

Today I am\u00a0exploring sarcasm<\/em>.\"Screen<\/h2>\n

\u00a0(part 1)<\/h2>\n

This took a lot of research because I had so little understanding of sarcasm and I’ve heard it so infrequently.<\/h3>\n

That was like stretching before a jog. <\/em><\/p>\n

You limber and ready? Let’s do this!<\/em><\/p>\n

We take humorous sarcasm for granted because it’s so plentiful in the modern culture milieu. This is, in fact, a recent cultural development, and one\u00a0the entertainment industry\u00a0has\u00a0much to be thankful for.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Sarcasm is\u00a0actually a rather complex use of a\u00a0language:<\/em><\/span><\/p>\n

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In using sarcasm we must\u00a0convey the opposite<\/strong> of what we are saying. <\/em><\/span><\/p>\n

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This happens best by using enough\u00a0vocal intonations, body language, and other hints to communicate true intent. (The less exaggeration done, the more of a butt hole you seem.)<\/em><\/span><\/p><\/blockquote>\n

Sidenote:
\nFor those with language or cognitive impairments, like autism, sarcasm may be routinely misunderstood. My son’s\u2013who has autism and learning disabilities\u2013now has a budding understanding of sarcasm at age 14. My\u00a0daughter caught on at age 3. By using more exaggeration to convey the real meaning in my use of sarcasm, I\u00a0introduced him to a common use of communication. I know you’re thinking… “PARENT OF THE YEAR!”…but, yes, this was not without its problems.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

His\u00a0accomplishment was a milestone of development that will start to serve him well if he expects to be treated as a mainstreamed person. Nevertheless,\u00a0the\u00a0use of sarcastic comments in our home tends to be unnoticed by him and taken in lateral, face-value terms. We try to keep\u00a0a reign on it in our home to avoid needless problems of miscommunication. <\/span><\/p>\n

This was, at first, a bitter disappointment to me, having come from a caustic childhood environment where sarcastic mockery was more plentiful than supper leftovers. Alas, it was a call to greater maturity as well as\u00a0development of alternative modes of mirth-making.\u00a0For me, baby steps.<\/span><\/p>\n

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6 Things to note about the use of sarcasm:<\/strong><\/h3>\n

1. Unlike many other expressions of humor, sarcasm always has a point and means to activate or thwart something. It also\u00a0proves useless (or frustrating) if the hearer fails to understand the actual pointed meaning. Tip: That’s how to foil it. Just act oblivious. Easy-peasy.\u00a0<\/em><\/p>\n

2. Invariably, It is used to point out the supposed superiority of one person (or group) over another.
\nThat’s, right…..Busted!<\/em><\/p>\n

3. It is considered genuinely humorous only when one\u00a0can duly side with the practitioner of it, and not be the object of the sarcasm\/ridicule. The rare exception being when\u00a0the practitioner has the master skills to appear convincingly benign to everyone involved\u2013which few do convincingly. Groans, eye rolling, harbored resentment, passive\u00a0aggression, or revenge plots indicate failure on this part.<\/em><\/p>\n

4. The word sarcasm<\/em> comes to us from the\u00a0mid 16th century\u00a0in the\u00a0French word sarcasme.\u00a0Isn’t it<\/i>\u00a0hard to believe that of all people and language groups\u00a0on the planet that it would be the French at\u00a0the\u00a0source of the word?<\/p>\n

I wonder what the source of the the word “snooty” is….<\/p>\n

(Find out and let me know!)<\/p>\n

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Right now, I feel I\u00a0should point out that\u00a0“DeLay” is\u00a0my\u00a0married<\/em>\u00a0name.<\/strong><\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n

The French word sarcasme\u00a0<\/i>was\u00a0originally from late Latin, from late Greek\u00a0sarkasmos. <\/i>In Greek, it is\u00a0sarkazein<\/i>\u00a0and means to \u2018tear flesh<\/strong>,\u2019 (lovely!). In late Greek it meant \u2018gnash the teeth, speak bitterly\u2019 (think: sneer). And like the languages from\u00a0whence it came, sarcasm is often noted to be too little, too late and, of course, carnivorous.<\/em><\/p>\n

5. The frequent use of sarcasm creates a negative, cynical, and often\u00a0toxic\u00a0atmosphere and state of mind. And it’s just plain old douchey\u00a0(pardon my\u00a0French<\/em>).<\/em><\/p>\n

6. In the classical (Greek) world, “humor” was primarily\u00a0conducted\u00a0as\u00a0sarcasm and practiced by the upper class (who were few) to degrade and\u00a0condescend the lower, poorer classes (who were many). I’m assuming that in contrast, the poorer classes, as is typical, found burping, farts, and shit\u00a0jokes\u00a0funny (pardon my French<\/em>).<\/p>\n

This class issue is why the use of humor\u00a0was\u00a0denounced by Plato and other early philosophers (who\u00a0were\u2013mind you\u2013literate, educated, and upper class. They\u00a0saw it as counter-productive and without virtue. The noble, high class aim is to be good. And of course, farting was not at all funny to Plato, ever. Not once.)<\/p>\n

In the Republic (<\/i>388e), Plato\u00a0says that the guardians of the state should avoid laughter, \u201cfor ordinarily when one abandons himself to violent laughter, his condition provokes a violent reaction.\u201d<\/p><\/blockquote>\n

I’m not sure if he meant riots or just getting punched in the eye.<\/p>\n

And now, I will\u00a0leave you with this story…<\/em><\/span><\/p>\n

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A linguists professor instructs his class saying,<\/em><\/span><\/p>\n

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“Sarcasm is a poor use of language, crass and unsophisticated, and serves absolutely no sensible point.”<\/em><\/span><\/p>\n

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To which a student in the back replies, “Yeah, right!”<\/em><\/span><\/p><\/blockquote>\n

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Sarcasm is, most often, poison humor meant to somehow injure or to thwart. <\/em><\/span><\/p>\n

It works like a kind of tool and inflicts a kind of violence. As with\u00a0all weapons, prudence\u00a0and\u00a0moderation will be the best course…in case all of this is getting past you. ;) <\/em><\/span><\/p>\n

It goes without saying that, sometimes, violence is the point, so then it boils down to determining what kind of person you want to be most of the time.<\/em><\/span><\/p>\n

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Your assignment is to write\u00a0something sarcastic in the comments section to prove you understood this post, or instead… if your\u00a0conscious is lashing you, count and report the number of times sarcasm was used in the post.\u00a0<\/span><\/em><\/p>\n

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Sarcasm tends to be misunderstood in written form. This includes, letters, emails, texts, and sky writing. The internet is replete with sarcasm misunderstood….so in<\/p>\n

PART 2\u00a0I’ll go over how the Secret Service is considering using\u00a0software to detect sarcasm online. Crazy but true.<\/p>\n

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PREVIOUS ARTICLES IN THE SERIES:<\/strong><\/p>\n

1. The primacy of humor<\/a><\/p>\n

2. Step 1: Tickle Rats (the science and study of humor)<\/a><\/p>\n

3. It’s not just timing, it’s specific knowledge<\/a><\/p>\n

4. On how subversive humor works<\/a><\/p>\n

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Thanks for sharing this article and website with others!<\/em><\/p>\n

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