{"id":15292,"date":"2014-11-25T09:05:11","date_gmt":"2014-11-25T14:05:11","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/lisadelay.com\/blog\/?p=15292"},"modified":"2014-11-25T09:43:44","modified_gmt":"2014-11-25T14:43:44","slug":"on-waiting","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/lisadelay.com\/blog\/on-waiting\/","title":{"rendered":"on Waiting&#8230;"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>This Sunday marks the start of the season of Advent 2015.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><strong>The\u00a0predominant theme of Advent is <em><span style=\"color: #800000;\">WAITING in expectation<\/span><\/em>.<br \/>\nIt&#8217;s a timeless theme.<\/strong><\/p>\n<figure id=\"attachment_15293\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-15293\" style=\"width: 300px\" class=\"wp-caption aligncenter\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"wp-image-15293 size-medium\" src=\"https:\/\/lisadelay.com\/blog\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/11\/stranded-new-york-workers-wait-patiently-in-a-long-line-to-use-a-phone-booth-to-call-home-300x225.jpg\" alt=\"stranded-new-york-workers-wait-patiently-in-a-long-line-to-use-a-phone-booth-to-call-home\" width=\"300\" height=\"225\" srcset=\"https:\/\/lisadelay.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/11\/stranded-new-york-workers-wait-patiently-in-a-long-line-to-use-a-phone-booth-to-call-home-300x225.jpg 300w, https:\/\/lisadelay.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/11\/stranded-new-york-workers-wait-patiently-in-a-long-line-to-use-a-phone-booth-to-call-home-350x263.jpg 350w, https:\/\/lisadelay.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/11\/stranded-new-york-workers-wait-patiently-in-a-long-line-to-use-a-phone-booth-to-call-home-150x112.jpg 150w, https:\/\/lisadelay.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/11\/stranded-new-york-workers-wait-patiently-in-a-long-line-to-use-a-phone-booth-to-call-home.jpg 473w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 300px) 100vw, 300px\" \/><figcaption id=\"caption-attachment-15293\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">(Before mobile phones, if a bus broke down you had to find a pay phone and wait your turn to call for rescue. These folks don&#8217;t seem too upset by it.)<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>Waiting makes up a\u00a0big portion\u00a0of our lives, doesn&#8217;t it?<\/p>\n<p>Whether it&#8217;s waiting in line or in traffic or waiting for an occasion or certain situation\u2013we do a lot of waiting.<\/p>\n<blockquote><p>For me, a focus on waiting pulls me out of the present moment to a moment that exists <span style=\"text-decoration: underline;\"><em>in theory<\/em><\/span>. It involves hope or anxiety. Or both.<\/p><\/blockquote>\n<p>The prisoners I minister to have a life centered on waiting for their freedom. <em>They routinely tell me that<strong> keeping busy<\/strong> is the best way to conquer the burden and stress of waiting.<\/em><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<h3><strong>But a closer interaction with the experience of waiting can unearth and reveal deeper spiritual longings that can both call us into a richer\u00a0walk of faith and engender the growth needed to more fully surrender to God.<\/strong><\/h3>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<blockquote><p>If we just stay busy we can miss the <span style=\"text-decoration: underline;\">gifts<\/span> that come only through\u00a0waiting.<\/p><\/blockquote>\n<p>Because waiting is such a huge part of the human experience, it&#8217;s no wonder that Christianity has long interacted with this theme as a entry point into\u00a0bigger spiritual conversations and concepts. It is through this struggle we gain growth and maturity in our\u00a0walk of faith.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\">Patience is rarely, if ever, attained by any other means than practice.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><strong>Waiting is that practice.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Waiting on the Lord is a vibrant theme in Scriptures too, right?<\/p>\n<p>Most of the stories in the Bible include the aspect of waiting. Abraham and Sarah (and many others) wait for offspring, David waits on the Lord for deliverance, the prophets wait for God&#8217;s\u00a0promises to be fulfilled, Paul and the other apostles do a lot of waiting in prison, and<strong> in the season of Advent we acutely encounter Mary&#8217;s waiting for the Savior, Jesus<\/strong>. She is the vehicle God has chosen to birth the Prince of Peace. It&#8217;s a nine month process\u2013on the heels of\u00a0thousands of years of waiting for the Messiah.<\/p>\n<p>This delivery involves <span style=\"text-decoration: underline;\">a lot<\/span> of anticipation and waiting.<\/p>\n<p>And so too does most anything else of worth. These many stories echo our own pain and struggle.<\/p>\n<p><strong>I appreciate\u00a0Mary&#8217;s expression of gratitude during her wait<\/strong> (a.k.a. <em>The Magnificat<\/em>-see the video below to hear &#8220;<a href=\"https:\/\/www.biblegateway.com\/passage\/?search=Luke+1%3A46-55&amp;version=NIV\" target=\"_blank\">Mary&#8217;s Song<\/a>&#8221;\u00a0sung my John Michael Talbot). We can use her example to help us along.<\/p>\n<blockquote><p><strong>Gratitude produces joy that makes waiting easier.<\/strong><\/p><\/blockquote>\n<p>Waiting aptly\u00a0exposes our traits of <em>impatience<\/em>, also. It works to refine us.<\/p>\n<p>Henri Nouwen once wrote, \u201cImpatient people are always expecting the real thing to happen somewhere else and therefore want to go elsewhere. \u201d<\/p>\n<p>Rev Adele Ahlberg Calhoun recently\u00a0<a href=\"http:\/\/www.transformingcenter.org\/2014\/11\/advent-invitation-wait-god\/\" target=\"_blank\">wrote<\/a>,<\/p>\n<blockquote><p>Waiting is how God gets at the idols of our heart. Waiting addresses the things we think we need besides God to be content: money, comfort, expedience, success or control.<\/p><\/blockquote>\n<p>TODAY&#8217;S\u00a0NUGGET:<\/p>\n<p>It&#8217;s a powerful lesson we find in Advent. Meditate on the longings of your heart and cultivate the seeds of advent there. Expectantly wait for God to fulfill his promises with a heart of trust and gratitude.<br \/>\n<iframe loading=\"lazy\" src=\"\/\/www.youtube.com\/embed\/9aYecuDlDYM\" width=\"420\" height=\"315\" frameborder=\"0\" allowfullscreen=\"allowfullscreen\"><\/iframe><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Patience is rarely, if ever, attained by any other means than practice. 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