{"id":16863,"date":"2015-11-04T06:32:14","date_gmt":"2015-11-04T11:32:14","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/lisadelay.com\/blog\/?p=16863"},"modified":"2016-04-14T08:15:59","modified_gmt":"2016-04-14T13:15:59","slug":"eps-35-sarah-bessey-talks-out-of-sorts","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/lisadelay.com\/blog\/eps-35-sarah-bessey-talks-out-of-sorts\/","title":{"rendered":"EPS 35: Sarah Bessey talks about &#8220;Out of Sorts&#8221;"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>People in over 149 countries listen to SPARK MY MUSE!<\/p>\n<p>And you do too.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-medium wp-image-15945\" src=\"https:\/\/lisadelay.com\/blog\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/06\/Sarah-14-300x199-300x199.jpg\" alt=\"Sarah-14-300x199\" width=\"300\" height=\"199\" srcset=\"https:\/\/lisadelay.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/06\/Sarah-14-300x199.jpg 300w, https:\/\/lisadelay.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/06\/Sarah-14-300x199-150x100.jpg 150w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 300px) 100vw, 300px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>A big welcome back to Sarah Bessey!<\/p>\n<p>You will LOVE this conversation about Sarah&#8217;s new book which involves a spiritual homecoming. 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height: 240px;\" src=\"\/\/ws-na.amazon-adsystem.com\/widgets\/q?ServiceVersion=20070822&amp;OneJS=1&amp;Operation=GetAdHtml&amp;MarketPlace=US&amp;source=ss&amp;ref=ss_til&amp;ad_type=product_link&amp;tracking_id=thbloflicode-20&amp;marketplace=amazon&amp;region=US&amp;placement=1476717583&amp;asins=1476717583&amp;linkId=EXGSKS7PWBACSDYI&amp;show_border=true&amp;link_opens_in_new_window=true\" width=\"300\" height=\"150\" frameborder=\"0\" marginwidth=\"0\" marginheight=\"0\" scrolling=\"no\"><br \/>\n<\/iframe><\/p>\n<p>Sarah Bessey &#8220;Out of Sorts&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>The difference between this book and the last one.<\/p>\n<p>8:00<br \/>\nSix years away from church.<br \/>\nFinding friends outside of a church community context and the loneliness of that.<\/p>\n<p>Making friends in the neighborhood and having more time because church obligations didn\u2019t take so much time.<\/p>\n<p>11:30<br \/>\nPrograming church can take away the organic way people can become bonded.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cMaybe community is a really churchy word for being a really good friend.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>13:30<br \/>\nObey the Sadness is her favorite chapter<\/p>\n<p>Barbara Brown Taylor<br \/>\n&#8220;Learning to Walk in the Dark&#8221;<br \/>\n<iframe loading=\"lazy\" style=\"width: 120px; height: 240px;\" src=\"\/\/ws-na.amazon-adsystem.com\/widgets\/q?ServiceVersion=20070822&amp;OneJS=1&amp;Operation=GetAdHtml&amp;MarketPlace=US&amp;source=ss&amp;ref=ss_til&amp;ad_type=product_link&amp;tracking_id=thbloflicode-20&amp;marketplace=amazon&amp;region=US&amp;placement=B00DB2YPDW&amp;asins=B00DB2YPDW&amp;linkId=ZPMV3M5S5ALNAP7V&amp;show_border=true&amp;link_opens_in_new_window=true\" width=\"300\" height=\"150\" frameborder=\"0\" marginwidth=\"0\" marginheight=\"0\" scrolling=\"no\"><br \/>\n<\/iframe><\/p>\n<p>Solar and Lunar Christians<\/p>\n<p>15:30<br \/>\nWhat unanswered prayers teach.<\/p>\n<p>16:20<br \/>\nI didn\u2019t know how to be sad. I didn\u2019t know how to say [things weren\u2019t] right and that I was longing for wholeness and longing for resolution and redemption. And make peace with that and sit in that tension well.<\/p>\n<p>Holding space for unfinished business.<\/p>\n<p>18:00<br \/>\nThe lamenting psalms are meant to be sung in community.<\/p>\n<p>The sacred work of listening when people are hurting.<\/p>\n<p>19:30<br \/>\nWhen people are uncomfortable with our pain.<\/p>\n<p>The winnowing times when friendships don\u2019t stay provide comfort during the painful times.<\/p>\n<p>22:00<br \/>\nThe Ash Wednesday breakthrough story.<\/p>\n<p>27:00<br \/>\non not knowing how to pray anymore.<\/p>\n<p>The Book of Common prayer<\/p>\n<p><iframe loading=\"lazy\" style=\"width: 120px; height: 240px;\" src=\"\/\/ws-na.amazon-adsystem.com\/widgets\/q?ServiceVersion=20070822&amp;OneJS=1&amp;Operation=GetAdHtml&amp;MarketPlace=US&amp;source=ss&amp;ref=ss_til&amp;ad_type=product_link&amp;tracking_id=thbloflicode-20&amp;marketplace=amazon&amp;region=US&amp;placement=0898690609&amp;asins=0898690609&amp;linkId=6NAYKGRY5KKZGGGC&amp;show_border=true&amp;link_opens_in_new_window=true\" width=\"300\" height=\"150\" frameborder=\"0\" marginwidth=\"0\" marginheight=\"0\" scrolling=\"no\"><br \/>\n<\/iframe><\/p>\n<p>The daily offices<br \/>\n<iframe loading=\"lazy\" style=\"width: 120px; height: 240px;\" src=\"\/\/ws-na.amazon-adsystem.com\/widgets\/q?ServiceVersion=20070822&amp;OneJS=1&amp;Operation=GetAdHtml&amp;MarketPlace=US&amp;source=ss&amp;ref=ss_til&amp;ad_type=product_link&amp;tracking_id=thbloflicode-20&amp;marketplace=amazon&amp;region=US&amp;placement=B00C2FCIEM&amp;asins=B00C2FCIEM&amp;linkId=RHEQHAO7QVUSWE3N&amp;show_border=true&amp;link_opens_in_new_window=true\" width=\"300\" height=\"150\" frameborder=\"0\" marginwidth=\"0\" marginheight=\"0\" scrolling=\"no\"><br \/>\n<\/iframe><\/p>\n<p>The 28:00<br \/>\nThe papal visit in Philly<\/p>\n<p><strong><a href=\"http:\/\/www.pbs.org\/newshour\/rundown\/watch-live-pope-francis\/\">LINK for the videos of all the U.S. papal messages<\/a><\/strong><\/p>\n<figure id=\"attachment_16865\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-16865\" style=\"width: 300px\" class=\"wp-caption aligncenter\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-medium wp-image-16865\" src=\"https:\/\/lisadelay.com\/blog\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/11\/communionphilly-300x186.jpeg\" alt=\"Priests move to distribute Communion at the closing Mass of the World Meeting of Families in Philadelphia Sept. 27. (CNS photo\/Teak Phillips, St. Louis Review) See POPE-FAMILY-MASS Sept. 27, 2015.\" width=\"300\" height=\"186\" srcset=\"https:\/\/lisadelay.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/11\/communionphilly-300x186.jpeg 300w, https:\/\/lisadelay.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/11\/communionphilly-350x217.jpeg 350w, https:\/\/lisadelay.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/11\/communionphilly-150x93.jpeg 150w, https:\/\/lisadelay.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/11\/communionphilly.jpeg 620w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 300px) 100vw, 300px\" \/><figcaption id=\"caption-attachment-16865\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">Priests move to distribute Communion at the closing Mass of the World Meeting of Families in Philadelphia Sept. 27. (CNS photo\/Teak Phillips, St. Louis Review) See POPE-FAMILY-MASS Sept. 27, 2015.<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<p>Open communion in the street<\/p>\n<p>The World Meeting of Families<\/p>\n<p>Sarah\u2019s interaction with liturgy now and underestimating her spiritual roots and homesickness.<\/p>\n<p>Missing the unscripted script of her church.<\/p>\n<p>34:00<br \/>\nRecognizing the global church and its expressions.<\/p>\n<p>35:30<br \/>\nSushi forever or the many expressions of Christianity.<\/p>\n<p>If your hands are open you can have many ways to encounter God.<\/p>\n<p>37:00<br \/>\nUnderstanding the wrath of God and sovereignty of God.<\/p>\n<p>46:00<br \/>\nThe pain and relief of the dross getting burning away.<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;Can God Be Trusted&#8221;<br \/>\nby John Stackhouse<\/p>\n<p><iframe loading=\"lazy\" style=\"width: 120px; height: 240px;\" src=\"\/\/ws-na.amazon-adsystem.com\/widgets\/q?ServiceVersion=20070822&amp;OneJS=1&amp;Operation=GetAdHtml&amp;MarketPlace=US&amp;source=ss&amp;ref=ss_til&amp;ad_type=product_link&amp;tracking_id=thbloflicode-20&amp;marketplace=amazon&amp;region=US&amp;placement=0830828869&amp;asins=0830828869&amp;linkId=UHNODJ7XHVRJJQS4&amp;show_border=true&amp;link_opens_in_new_window=true\" width=\"300\" height=\"150\" frameborder=\"0\" marginwidth=\"0\" marginheight=\"0\" scrolling=\"no\"><br \/>\n<\/iframe><br \/>\n49:00<br \/>\nBeing okay with growing pains.<\/p>\n<p>The one message she hopes people get from the book.<br \/>\n(She takes us to church! 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