{"id":19242,"date":"2016-11-25T03:15:46","date_gmt":"2016-11-25T07:15:46","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/lisadelay.com\/blog\/?p=19242"},"modified":"2017-03-24T16:30:36","modified_gmt":"2017-03-24T20:30:36","slug":"eps-89-exploring-passive-agression-guest-dr-leon-seltzer","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/lisadelay.com\/blog\/eps-89-exploring-passive-agression-guest-dr-leon-seltzer\/","title":{"rendered":"Eps 89:  Exploring Passive-Agression, guest Dr Leon Seltzer"},"content":{"rendered":"<h2 style=\"text-align: center;\"><strong>Welcome to Spark My Muse!<\/strong><\/h2>\n<p><strong><em>PROGRAM DETAILS:<\/em><\/strong><br \/>\n\u2022 Each\u00a0<strong>FRIDAY,\u00a0<\/strong>guests join me in a\u00a0conversation.<br \/>\n\u2022 Come back each\u00a0<strong>Wednesday<\/strong><br \/>\n(on &#8220;Hump Day&#8221; aka Midweek) for a brief Soul School &#8220;lesson&#8221;\u2013something for your interior world and common life.<\/p>\n<hr \/>\n<p style=\"text-align: left;\"><em><strong><span style=\"color: #000080;\">Want to help?<\/span><br \/>\n<span style=\"color: #000080;\"> LISTENERS, like you, support Spark My Muse with gifts and spreading the word about the show.<br \/>\n\u2022 A donation\u00a0through <span style=\"text-decoration: underline;\"><a href=\"https:\/\/www.paypal.com\/cgi-bin\/webscr?cmd=_s-xclick&amp;hosted_button_id=KVNWHBFV8MHF6\" target=\"_blank\"><span style=\"color: #ff0000; text-decoration: underline;\">PayPal<\/span><\/a><\/span> is a one-time gift. 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