{"id":19344,"date":"2016-12-30T03:15:32","date_gmt":"2016-12-30T07:15:32","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/lisadelay.com\/blog\/?p=19344"},"modified":"2016-12-30T08:33:29","modified_gmt":"2016-12-30T12:33:29","slug":"eps-94-untrue-stories-tell-relationships-guest-scott-gornto","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/lisadelay.com\/blog\/eps-94-untrue-stories-tell-relationships-guest-scott-gornto\/","title":{"rendered":"Eps 94: The (untrue) Stories We Tell Ourselves in Relationships, Guest Scott Gornto"},"content":{"rendered":"<h2 style=\"text-align: center;\"><span style=\"color: #800000;\"><strong>Welcome to Spark My Muse!<\/strong><\/span><\/h2>\n<p style=\"padding-left: 30px;\"><span style=\"color: #800000;\"><strong><em>PROGRAM DETAILS:<\/em><\/strong><\/span><br \/>\n<span style=\"color: #800000;\"> \u2022 Each\u00a0<strong>FRIDAY,\u00a0<\/strong>guests join me in a\u00a0conversation.<\/span><br \/>\n<span style=\"color: #800000;\"> \u2022 Come back each\u00a0<strong>Wednesday<\/strong><\/span><br \/>\n<span style=\"color: #800000;\"> (on &#8220;Hump Day&#8221; aka Midweek) for a brief Soul School &#8220;lesson&#8221;\u2013something for your interior world and common life.<\/span><\/p>\n<hr \/>\n<p style=\"text-align: left;\"><em><strong><span style=\"color: #000080;\">Want to help?<\/span><br \/>\n<span style=\"color: #000080;\">It&#8217;s LISTENERS, like you, that support Spark My Muse.<br \/>\n\u2022 A donation\u00a0through <span style=\"text-decoration: underline;\"><a href=\"https:\/\/www.paypal.com\/cgi-bin\/webscr?cmd=_s-xclick&amp;hosted_button_id=KVNWHBFV8MHF6\" target=\"_blank\"><span style=\"color: #ff0000; text-decoration: underline;\">PayPal<\/span><\/a><\/span> is a one-time gift type of thing. 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