{"id":19610,"date":"2017-05-10T03:15:59","date_gmt":"2017-05-10T07:15:59","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/lisadelay.com\/blog\/?p=19610"},"modified":"2017-05-13T10:12:08","modified_gmt":"2017-05-13T14:12:08","slug":"eps-105-how-to-connect-meaningfully-so-you-dont-die-early-guest-amy-banks-md","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/lisadelay.com\/blog\/eps-105-how-to-connect-meaningfully-so-you-dont-die-early-guest-amy-banks-md\/","title":{"rendered":"Eps 105: If Relational Boundaries Aren&#8217;t Porous, We Can Die Early, says guest Dr. Amy Banks MD"},"content":{"rendered":"<h2 style=\"text-align: center;\"><span style=\"color: #000000;\"><strong>Welcome to Spark My Muse!<\/strong><\/span><br \/>\n<span style=\"color: #000000;\"> \u2022 Audio\u00a0is released each\u00a0<strong><span style=\"text-decoration: underline;\">Wednesday<\/span>.<\/strong><\/span><\/h2>\n<h3><strong><span style=\"color: #ff6600;\">Scroll down for the <span style=\"text-decoration: underline;\"><span style=\"color: #000000; text-decoration: underline;\">AUDIO PLAYER<\/span><\/span> to hear the latest episode!<\/span><\/strong><\/h3>\n<hr \/>\n<p style=\"text-align: left;\">\u2022 <strong>If you are\u00a0grateful for this work, please\u00a0help<\/strong> with a gift (of any amount) using\u00a0<span style=\"text-decoration: underline;\"><span style=\"color: #ff0000; text-decoration: underline;\"><a href=\"https:\/\/www.paypal.com\/cgi-bin\/webscr?cmd=_s-xclick&amp;hosted_button_id=KVNWHBFV8MHF6\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">PayPal<\/a>\u00a0(credit cards are accepted too).<\/span><\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-18682 size-thumbnail\" src=\"https:\/\/lisadelay.com\/blog\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/07\/paypal-150x80.jpeg\" alt=\"paypal\" width=\"150\" height=\"80\" srcset=\"https:\/\/lisadelay.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/07\/paypal-150x80.jpeg 150w, https:\/\/lisadelay.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/07\/paypal-350x187.jpeg 350w, https:\/\/lisadelay.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/07\/paypal-300x160.jpeg 300w, https:\/\/lisadelay.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/07\/paypal-768x410.jpeg 768w, https:\/\/lisadelay.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/07\/paypal-1024x546.jpeg 1024w, https:\/\/lisadelay.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/07\/paypal.jpeg 1800w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 150px) 100vw, 150px\" \/><a href=\"https:\/\/www.paypal.com\/cgi-bin\/webscr?cmd=_s-xclick&amp;hosted_button_id=KVNWHBFV8MHF6\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\"><br \/>\n<\/a><span style=\"color: #000080;\"><a href=\"https:\/\/www.paypal.com\/cgi-bin\/webscr?cmd=_s-xclick&amp;hosted_button_id=KVNWHBFV8MHF6\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">THANK YOU so much.<br \/>\n<em>~<\/em><\/a><em>Lisa<\/em><\/span><\/p>\n<hr \/>\n<p>Amy Banks, M.D., was an instructor of psychiatry at Harvard Medical School and is now the director of Advanced Training at the Jean Baker Miller Training Institute at the Wellesley Centers for Women. 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