{"id":25134,"date":"2022-10-26T03:15:00","date_gmt":"2022-10-26T07:15:00","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/lisadelay.com\/blog\/?p=25134"},"modified":"2022-10-24T16:23:42","modified_gmt":"2022-10-24T20:23:42","slug":"fear-of-connection-ssl-249","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/lisadelay.com\/blog\/fear-of-connection-ssl-249\/","title":{"rendered":"The Fear of Connection [SSL 249]"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Host Lisa Col\u00f3n DeLay discusses the human need to connect with others to become more ourselves and how can we begin.<br \/><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><iframe loading=\"lazy\" src=\"https:\/\/player.blubrry.com\/?podcast_id=90729606&amp;media_url=https%3A%2F%2Fmedia.blubrry.com%2Fspark_my_muse%2Fmc.blubrry.com%2Fspark_my_muse%2F249_FearofConnection.mp3%3FawCollectionId%3D33477%26awEpisodeId%3D9907581%26aw_0_azn.pgenre%3DReligion%26aw_0_1st.ri%3Dblubrry%26aw_0_azn.pcountry%3DUS%26aw_0_azn.planguage%3Den-us%26aw_0_cnt.rss%3Dhttps%253A%252F%252Ffeeds.podcastmirror.com%252Fspark-my-muse\" scrolling=\"no\" width=\"100%\" height=\"165\" frameborder=\"0\" id=\"blubrryplayer-1\" class=\"blubrryplayer\" title=\"Blubrry Podcast Player\"><\/iframe><p class=\"powerpress_links powerpress_links_comspark-my-muse\" style=\"margin-bottom: 1px !important;\">Podcast: <a href=\"https:\/\/media.blubrry.com\/spark_my_muse\/mc.blubrry.com\/spark_my_muse\/249_FearofConnection.mp3?awCollectionId=33477&amp;awEpisodeId=9907581&amp;aw_0_azn.pgenre=Religion&amp;aw_0_1st.ri=blubrry&amp;aw_0_azn.pcountry=US&amp;aw_0_azn.planguage=en-us&amp;aw_0_cnt.rss=https%3A%2F%2Ffeeds.podcastmirror.com%2Fspark-my-muse\" class=\"powerpress_link_pinw\" target=\"_blank\" title=\"Play in new window\" onclick=\"return powerpress_pinw('https:\/\/lisadelay.com\/blog\/?powerpress_pinw=25134-podcast');\" rel=\"nofollow\">Play in new window<\/a> | <a href=\"https:\/\/media.blubrry.com\/spark_my_muse\/mc.blubrry.com\/spark_my_muse\/249_FearofConnection.mp3?awCollectionId=33477&#038;awEpisodeId=9907581&#038;aw_0_azn.pgenre=Religion&#038;aw_0_1st.ri=blubrry&#038;aw_0_azn.pcountry=US&#038;aw_0_azn.planguage=en-us&#038;aw_0_cnt.rss=https%3A%2F%2Ffeeds.podcastmirror.com%2Fspark-my-muse\" class=\"powerpress_link_d\" title=\"Download\" rel=\"nofollow\" download=\"249_FearofConnection.mp3?awCollectionId=33477&amp;#038;awEpisodeId=9907581&amp;#038;aw_0_azn.pgenre=Religion&amp;#038;aw_0_1st.ri=blubrry&amp;#038;aw_0_azn.pcountry=US&amp;#038;aw_0_azn.planguage=en-us&amp;#038;aw_0_cnt.rss=https%3A%2F%2Ffeeds.podcastmirror.com%2Fspark-my-muse\">Download<\/a> (Duration: 15:11 &#8212; 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