{"id":3835,"date":"2010-11-27T22:46:13","date_gmt":"2010-11-28T02:46:13","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/lifeasprayer.wordpress.com\/?p=3835"},"modified":"2010-11-27T22:46:13","modified_gmt":"2010-11-28T02:46:13","slug":"is-chocolate-filling-my-god-shaped-hole","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/lisadelay.com\/blog\/is-chocolate-filling-my-god-shaped-hole\/","title":{"rendered":"Is chocolate filling my God-shaped hole?"},"content":{"rendered":"<figure id=\"attachment_3877\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-3877\" style=\"width: 325px\" class=\"wp-caption aligncenter\"><a href=\"http:\/\/www.biscoff.com\/DirectionsWEB\/webcart_static.php?file=static_biscoffChocolates.html\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-3877\" title=\"ChocolateHeartDark\" src=\"https:\/\/lisadelay.com\/blog\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2010\/11\/chocolateheartdark.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"325\" height=\"290\" srcset=\"https:\/\/lisadelay.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2010\/11\/chocolateheartdark.jpg 325w, https:\/\/lisadelay.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2010\/11\/chocolateheartdark-300x267.jpg 300w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 325px) 100vw, 325px\" \/><\/a><figcaption id=\"caption-attachment-3877\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">Biscoff Gourmet<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<p><strong>WARNING: Like any good chocolate\u2013which contains 60% cocoa\u2013this post contains 60% tongue-in-cheek humor, and has been produced from a place they may be associated with <del>nutz<\/del> nuts.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong>So, about Chocolate&#8230;<br \/>\n<\/strong>Recently, I&#8217;ve asked myself the questions, &#8220;Can I see God past my love of <a class=\"zem_slink\" title=\"Chocolate\" rel=\"wikipedia\" href=\"http:\/\/en.wikipedia.org\/wiki\/Chocolate\">chocolate<\/a>?&#8221; and &#8220;Am I stuffing chocolate into the so-called &#8220;God-shaped void&#8221; of my heart?&#8221;<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align:center;\"><strong>It&#8217;s. not. so. simple.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>First, we have to answer the questions: <strong>What is &#8220;the heart&#8221;? And does this heart &#8220;place&#8221; have a vacuum (missing spot, hole, etc)?<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong>Okay. No. Let&#8217;s talk about the phrasing first.<br \/>\nThis &#8220;God-shaped hole&#8221; phrase could be more viable, in the first place, if God were like a product, and would act predictably as such. If God were a pill, or a tool, or a consumable, then selling him as &#8220;the thing that fills us&#8221; would work a whole lot better. God could be like sliced bread, or an Apple product.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Don&#8217;t get me wrong, God actually\u00a0<em>is<\/em> sold this way by folks each day. He&#8217;s <em>promised<\/em> as the only thing to be the perfect fit, the best boyfriend ever, or the one who (like a class president with a Mexican heritage), will &#8220;make your wildest dreams come true.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>But how about the brass tacks?<br \/>\nLike Snickers, does God <strong>satisfy<\/strong>?<\/p>\n<div class=\"zemanta-img\">\n<figure style=\"width: 300px\" class=\"wp-caption alignright\"><a href=\"http:\/\/commons.wikipedia.org\/wiki\/File:Snickers_opened.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" title=\"Snickers Purchased Feb. 2005 in Atlanta, GA, USA\" src=\"http:\/\/upload.wikimedia.org\/wikipedia\/commons\/thumb\/9\/94\/Snickers_opened.jpg\/300px-Snickers_opened.jpg\" alt=\"Snickers Purchased Feb. 2005 in Atlanta, GA, USA\" width=\"300\" height=\"117\" \/><\/a><figcaption class=\"wp-caption-text\">Image via Wikipedia<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<\/div>\n<p>Well, to be honest, I&#8217;d have to say &#8220;yes&#8221;, &#8220;no&#8221;, and &#8220;sometimes&#8221;.<br \/>\nOptimally, yes, God does. God has the potential to, but I haven&#8217;t seen anyone able to really take him up on all his selling features, and be &#8220;satisfied&#8221; too consistently\u2013especially during God&#8217;s silent times, or terribly rough periods of life. Personally, losing my dad made me feel particularly not satisfied by God. For a long time. This most likely has to do with spiritual immaturity, but I&#8217;ve lived long enough to see it as a typical human response.<\/p>\n<p>Though God&#8217;s perfect, the reality of the situation brings to bear the bigger question, and probably more important question: What relationship DOES satisfy us? Or, is satisfaction even the point? I&#8217;m going to buck the popular belief and say, &#8220;No. It is not the point. The situation probably cannon come to resolution this way.&#8221;<br \/>\nHow do you see it? Maybe I can be better enlightened.<\/p>\n<p>Now, back to the first point: &#8220;What <span style=\"text-decoration:underline;\">is<\/span> the heart?&#8221; The common, and I will add contemporary, understanding of the <strong>heart has to do primarily with our emotions, affections, feelings, or loyalties. Do you agree? <\/strong>But, if we consider this meaning was not AT ALL a Biblical understanding of the word &#8220;heart,&#8221; a whole bunch of things can do a 180\u00ba, like K.I.T. in Knight Rider.<\/p>\n<p><em>Heart<\/em>, in Hebrew terms, was synonymous with the word &#8220;mind&#8221;, or the decision center of a person. &#8220;Heart&#8221; was considered fully tied to the choice of <strong>will<\/strong>. So, our phrase, &#8220;follow your heart&#8221; is a modern day example of the <strong>opposite<\/strong> connotation of one&#8217;s &#8220;heart&#8221; in the Bible. With the Greek language, the same understanding remains for the Hebrew understanding: The &#8220;heart&#8221; is we think of as &#8220;the mind&#8221;. All those verses, like &#8220;The heart is deceitful above all things, who can trust it&#8230;&#8221; Well, that is speaking about the mind, not that thing that &#8220;falls in love&#8221; or gets sentimental. WE are deceitful partial by nature and partially by a choice of will. That the blunt accuracy version of the topic.<\/p>\n<p>With this in mind (unfortunate pun #1. Ugh sorry), is there even a &#8220;hole&#8221; to fill? Do any heart-type voids have more to do with desire, or something of a more fleeting variety? Weigh in on this, if you will. (Pardon unfortunate\u00a0pun #2.)<\/p>\n<p>In conclusion, can I come to the answer for &#8220;&#8216;what chocolate is filling for me&#8221;?<br \/>\nNo. Unless you allow &#8220;empty calories&#8221; or &#8220;once loose fitting jeans&#8221; for answers.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align:center;\"><strong>One more question:<\/strong><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align:center;\"><strong>Milk or Dark chocolate?<\/strong><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Filling the God-shaped hole with chocolate?<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[5626],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-3835","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-spark-my-muse"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/lisadelay.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3835","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/lisadelay.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/lisadelay.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/lisadelay.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/lisadelay.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=3835"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/lisadelay.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3835\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/lisadelay.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=3835"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/lisadelay.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=3835"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/lisadelay.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=3835"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}